Community Etiquette
ToS;DR strives to be an all-inclusive community for all ages, ethnicities, and genders. To achieve this goal, we maintain a set of ground rules split into requirements and suggestions.
Rules
Requirements
Treat others with respect. Always remember you are talking to another person.
Respect other people's opinions. Differing views are welcome, and it is fine to point out when someone is being extreme.
Do not push your narrative. Opinions are accepted, but making others feel bad or forcing your view on them will be penalized.
Anything that is illegal in your country is illegal here. Severe violations can be reported to authorities.
Spam is not okay. Multiple messages are fine when they are essential to the topic, but repeating the same message is not.
Do not DM others without permission. Exceptions apply to moderators or team members if they are online and not set to “Do not Disturb”.
Hate speech is not tolerated. Keep harmful opinions—especially those targeting minorities—out of our spaces.
Do not impersonate anyone. Even joking impersonations can be harmful.
Follow the Discord Community Guidelines when you are on Discord.
Suggestions
Avoid texting when you have had a really bad day. It is easy to sound agitated and make others uncomfortable.
Stay open to new opinions.
Be kind.
Appealing
Follow these steps if you believe a ban should be reconsidered:
Mistreatment / disrespecting opinions: Apologise to the people involved. A reinstatement is not guaranteed if moderators consider the apology insincere or you are a repeat offender.
DMing without permission: Apologise to the recipient and explain what you will do differently in the future.
Spam:
Automated spam will remain banned.
For human mistakes, a simple “sorry, it will not happen again” is usually enough.
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